Frustrated

I officially know what it's like to be the guy who is denied sex every night. I've been aroused for the last three days and I've been staying at T's but every time I try to make my move he either moves away, doesn't seem interested, or just tries to make up an excuse. He's a guy shouldn't he be into this stuff? I just don't get it. This really isn't helping my insecurities either... nor my moodiness.

I just don't know what to do... do I keep trying and keep getting denied? Or do I just give up and tell T we should just be friends (without the benefits)? It's hard when I like him and he claims he likes me but is it the truth or is it just what he thinks I want to hear? I just don't know anymore. I used to be so confident in my intuition on people but after J I haven't had much confidence in anything. 

Sometimes I wish I could just stop thinking, stop stressing, stop over analyzing every little thing. But I don't have that comfort anymore. I don't have that warm feeling. It's was there but now it's gone and I don't know if it's going to come back. Maybe when things are not so much in the air with everything; maybe then I can just relax and not be so stressed. But with how confusing things can be in this type of a situation I don't see myself relaxing anytime soon. But I should have known better I've never been good with the whole "friends with benefits" or "fuck buddies" or "cuddle buddies" or whatever you call someone who isn't your boyfriend. I get too attached and my jealousy comes out ESPECIALLY when there's other girls that he's talking to. 

I chose the song "Chill" by Blake Shelton for today's post because I need to just chill. I need to take a break from my stress and just relax somewhere with an iced cold beer and no worries. By the end of this summer I hope to have things a bit more straightened out in my life and know where I stand with T.