Sunday 8/18:
School starts tomorrow and I'm super excited. It's just another step to finishing my AA and starting a new chapter in my life. I'm finally moving forward with my life and I'm truly excited about my future for the first time of my life. I'm gunna miss the summer fun and all my adventure time with T but I'm sure we will find time to squeeze in an adventure or two.
School starts tomorrow and I'm super excited. It's just another step to finishing my AA and starting a new chapter in my life. I'm finally moving forward with my life and I'm truly excited about my future for the first time of my life. I'm gunna miss the summer fun and all my adventure time with T but I'm sure we will find time to squeeze in an adventure or two.
T and I have been working on spending some time apart here and there and I think school is gunna help me with that a lot. I don't know what it is I just get stressed out sometimes over things he thinks I shouldn't worry about. But when my feelings are hurt how am I just supposed to brush it off and not let him know? Am I just supposed to let him walk all over me?
Tuesday 8/20:
After meeting with my Interpersonal Communication teacher and learning about her teaching view, I got really excited for this semester. I wanted to take the class to work on me as a person and last semester I met this teacher outside of class and I wanted to take her class since she was always so alert with her students even after their class was over and my class was moving into the room.
One big thing I found was that she has done Communication research with incarcerated men and how the general population views them. It's gunna be something I want to discuss with her, even if J and I will never be together romantically I'm still interested in such things because of what I've been through. I wish the best for J and for his sake I hope he chooses a sober life and hopefully he can get help for whatever else was the cause of his violence. He would make a great husband one day if he only knew how to deal with somethings.
Even though it only been two days since school started I can tell its gunna help with T and I's relationship because I seem calmer and not so anxious when I come over. I'm not questioning everything he does when I'm not there anymore and it's been a great distraction. I've been trying to condition myself to not getting made so quickly at him, but it's definitely not easy.
One thing that I have been annoyed with is he keeps reminding me he doesn't want a relationship. And he should know I get that by now but if he can't realize I'm not gunna wait around for him to figure out what he wants cause I finally know what I want and I'm wanting to move forward with my love life whether or not its with him. It sounds harsh but I feel like I've invested a lot in this and I'm starting to feel things for him and it hurts every time he says he just doesn't want a relationship because no matter what he says or what everyone else says I hear I don't want a relationship with you. I've been hurt before I fell hard for a guy and he only strung me on to leave me at a Safeway in Menlo Park crying. Or the guy that strung me on for years giving me hopes of a relationship only to find another girl he found more fitting for the girlfriend title. I'm done with this game guys play, sure girls play it too and I used to be one of those girls but after J, even during J my girlfriend thought mentality changed.
So I decided to pick the song "Cups (When I'm Gone)" by Anna Kendrick one because it's always stuck in my head and the beat puts me in a good mood. And two because I have a feeling if I can't handle being the side chick for T and I leave, I'm pretty sure he's gunna miss me. He's gunna have reminders, including the bed he sleeps in. I hope it doesn't end that way cause I know I'd miss him too.
Tuesday 8/20:
After meeting with my Interpersonal Communication teacher and learning about her teaching view, I got really excited for this semester. I wanted to take the class to work on me as a person and last semester I met this teacher outside of class and I wanted to take her class since she was always so alert with her students even after their class was over and my class was moving into the room.
One big thing I found was that she has done Communication research with incarcerated men and how the general population views them. It's gunna be something I want to discuss with her, even if J and I will never be together romantically I'm still interested in such things because of what I've been through. I wish the best for J and for his sake I hope he chooses a sober life and hopefully he can get help for whatever else was the cause of his violence. He would make a great husband one day if he only knew how to deal with somethings.
Even though it only been two days since school started I can tell its gunna help with T and I's relationship because I seem calmer and not so anxious when I come over. I'm not questioning everything he does when I'm not there anymore and it's been a great distraction. I've been trying to condition myself to not getting made so quickly at him, but it's definitely not easy.
One thing that I have been annoyed with is he keeps reminding me he doesn't want a relationship. And he should know I get that by now but if he can't realize I'm not gunna wait around for him to figure out what he wants cause I finally know what I want and I'm wanting to move forward with my love life whether or not its with him. It sounds harsh but I feel like I've invested a lot in this and I'm starting to feel things for him and it hurts every time he says he just doesn't want a relationship because no matter what he says or what everyone else says I hear I don't want a relationship with you. I've been hurt before I fell hard for a guy and he only strung me on to leave me at a Safeway in Menlo Park crying. Or the guy that strung me on for years giving me hopes of a relationship only to find another girl he found more fitting for the girlfriend title. I'm done with this game guys play, sure girls play it too and I used to be one of those girls but after J, even during J my girlfriend thought mentality changed.
So I decided to pick the song "Cups (When I'm Gone)" by Anna Kendrick one because it's always stuck in my head and the beat puts me in a good mood. And two because I have a feeling if I can't handle being the side chick for T and I leave, I'm pretty sure he's gunna miss me. He's gunna have reminders, including the bed he sleeps in. I hope it doesn't end that way cause I know I'd miss him too.
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